The G-Spot (is not a myth)

The G-Spot, or Gräfenberg Spot, named after german gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg (who first considered it's existance in 1944) is a female erogenous zone, located in the interior front wall of the vagina (see illustration below).

Scientific investigations on the G-spot have not provided "evidence" that this particular area is more sensitive to ant kind of stimulation: it does no possess greater nerve density, like other more sensitive areas do (namely the clitoris).

Also laboratory tests on real women have not yielded consistent results (how you can actually simulate sexual arousal in laboratory is completely outside my knowledge, but hey, they're the scientists).

For these and other reasons, the G-spot has gained myth status. If you ask around a group of friends, answers will vary: "That's a spot that can be anywhere on a woman's body, like the ear or something", "Oh that's just a myth", or "Ehrmmm no idea", are some of the common ones.

But for someone who has tried and enjoyed the experience (on either the giving or receiving end), I am sure that the lack of scientific evidence is of little consequence. Truth is, G-spot stimulation can lead (according to women) to more "full and intense" orgasms, when compared to orgasms obtained through just direct clitoral stimulation.

So how can you guide your girl to a pleasurable new experience in your own body, or ask your guy to try something different?

Insert your middle finger (make sure nails are trimmed and clean and that she is already well lubricated) into her vagina and it rub the soft of the finger (part opposed to your nail) gently up and down, against and along her front wall, gradually increasing pressure, as you feel how she responds (how she breaths, moans, muscle contractions on her genital area). Just explore, vary in pressure and rythm and let her response guide you. Don't be afraid to put extra pressure on as long as se seems to enjoy it, vaginal muscle tissue is far stronger than you may think.

Her response may vary from just pleasurably different to an intense orgasm unlike anything she's experienced, but odds are, she will enjoy it.

Note: You might notice a round or eliptical shaped spot somewhere along the middle of her front wall or not notice a change in texture at all, this does not really imply that she will be more or less sensitive.

Have fun!

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